I'm a reluctant risk-taker and so when strong comments left a wound, I just wanted to crawl back into my worn journal...a safe place. But, my friend, Debbie, asked me to continue to share thoughts in this blog. I really do believe this wise woman has a direct line to God, so I'm trying to remount the saddle and give the soul bullies a run for their money.
I can't think of a better day than the Monday after Mother's Day to post this letter about my second mother.

Dear Joyce, 

You walked into my life when I was seventeen. It was not long before I felt adopted by you.

My other mother and dear friend!

You gave me your blessing when you casually mentioned that Robbie's last girlfriend was not so high-type like me.  I so wanted to fulfill your expectations; I'm still trying.

It must have been hard for you to see your first born spend so much time away from your family as our teenage relationship grew, but you were gracious to share your child with me. 

You walked by my side, supporting me when life at home was not always the best and you taught me so much about trusting Jesus with my life. 

You raised a beautiful son with great love and sacrifice; you gifted me with the best husband ever. 

You adored your grandchildren and they, too, adored you, their g-mom.

You taught me about courage as you battled your last earthly fight.

I miss you today, my precious mother-in-love. 

I'm not clear how all this heavenly stuff works, but I smile at the thought of your first born greeting you each day. 

I officially proclaim the day after, Mother-in-Love Day! You mothers entrusted us with your grown babies, thus blessing our lives beyond measure. You deserve much acclaim.

Mother Joyce, I celebrate you on your special day with much love and gratitude.

See you later...Robin