If I could tell my younger self just one thing, it would be to look toward the perimeter, not the center. Think back to middle school parties, everyone looked to the middle of the dance floor where popularity took center stage. No one seemed to be scanning those holding up the wall. Adult life is often the same, even at church.
Months ago, out of obedience, I intentionally refocused my gaze. Who was sitting alone at a social function or standing in the background at church week after week? At times, it was awkward and it often took a few approaches before a person began sharing their story, but it’s been worth it. One woman now shines a beautiful smile when she sees me coming down Heslip Hall.
Jesus most often looked past the inner sanctum to focus on the dismissed; of course, we would expect Him to do so, but doesn’t He expect us to intentionally shift our gaze?
I am reminded that Jesus longed to gather all of his chicks; He knew everyone had a need to be seen, healed and forgiven. Jesus positioned himself in a manner which made Him approachable, even if it made for some late night visits. Right, Nicodemus? (Hmm…imagine me skipping the usual lunch plans to visit with someone waiting for the late Metrolift.)
So, young self who emerges all too often, there’s little to gain in desiring entrance to the “In Crowd.” Extend your sightline; your life is about to become so much richer and most importantly, a real blessing to others.
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